Thursday, September 4, 2008

Relaxation Exercises For Children and Adolescents

Anyone who has children or deals with children knows that the hardest thing to do is to get them to sit down and relax. It's understandable of course, they are just beginning to experience the world and they have a burning desire to do as much as they can. Unfortunately though, modern society has made it more and more difficult to take this unquenchable energy and channel it into something more productive.

Living in our society is like living in a three ring circus with constantly flashing lights, shows, games, and rides. How can we expect our children to simply sit down quietly and do some contemplating? Relaxation exercises for children and adolescents are easy to find but hard to apply because our children just won't sit still long enough to try them. This is the age of technology and our children know it better than we do, if we want to bring them the joy of silence and the beauty of relaxation then we have to bring it to them in a way that they can relate to not in a way that we learned it.

Out of all the relaxation exercises for children and adolescents the most productive, in terms of increased attention span and focus, is Meditation. Of course when we think of meditation we immediately think of sitting in a room quietly with our eyes closed, or on a rock outside listening to the sound of a river. I'm a parent and I know that the chances of my little one doing meditation like this are slim to none. However, one quick look around a school-yard will show you the answer. Children wear them all the time as a way of tuning out the world and now they can use them as a way of tuning in to themselves; Headphones.

Binaural meditation is a beautiful way of bringing your children into a calmer, more relaxed frame of mind without them even knowing that it's happening. All they would know is that they are listening to some very nice music and that it inspires a tranquil feeling. They have no way of knowing that the use of sound frequencies is, in fact, balancing both hemispheres of their brain and thus adding a balance to their thoughts and life. They'll still have the same enthusiasm and energy, but they will use it to direct their focus and attention on the present moment. They will learn to appreciate their own mind, and through that, their own life.

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